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Wednesday, December 3, 2025

IWSG: Wednesday, December 3, 2025 ~ My Best Writer's Gift Ever

 




It's the first Wednesday of the month,
the day that members of the
Insecure Writer's Support Group
share their writing struggles
and writing successes
and offer their encouragement
and support to fellow writers.






To visit the IWSG website, click here.

To become a member of the IWSG, click here.

Our wonderful co-hosts who are volunteering today,
along with IWSG Founder Alex J. Cavanaugh are 

Stop by their posts and thank them for hosting.
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Every month the IWSG announces a question that members can answer
with advice, insight, a personal experience, or a story in their IWSG posts.

Or, the question can inspire members
if they aren't sure what to write about on IWSG Day.

Remember the question is optional.

This month's optional question is: 
As a writer, what was one of the coolest/best gifts you ever received?
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Happy December, Everyone! 
I hope all is well with each of you.

Yes, a straightforward and noncontroversial question,
definitely a gift at this busy time of year! 

The best gift I ever received as writer was a framed picture
of the cover of The Antigonish Review which published my first short story
together with the title page of my story "Ugly Little Bastards."
My family surprised me with it on Christmas morning 1982
the year my story was published.
This gift symbolized my family's love for me and their unconditional support
during one of the most difficult times in my life.

Personally for me, that story in that literary journal was validation.  
I was a writer.

The Antigonish Review ~ Number 48, Winter, 1982



"Ugly Little Bastards" p. 75

My writing journey has followed a different course from what I imagined,
but whenever I doubt myself and my writing,
I look at that framed picture and feel the validation.


The best gift I've ever received in my life?
The gift of a loving and supportive family.
including Terry, my parents, my siblings, their spouses, and my extended family. 

Our Generation
Back: Roy, Terry, Peter, and Martin
Front: Sue, Barb, Me, Bertie, and Donnie
Missing: Pat
Smith's Cove, Nova Scotia, Canada
August 7, 2029
© M. Louise (MacBeath) Barbour/Fundy Blue All Rights Reserved

Just in case you don't know, we have an IWSG Facebook site with thousands of members.
Today, if you'd like to link your IWSG post to our Facebook site,
you can post a link in the comments on our FB site.
We share our monthly IWSG question with our Facebook members,
and they can share their answers on today's FB post as well.

And here's a plug for me! πŸ˜‚
Today on the home page of our IWSG website,
I have posted "What is the Point?" asking what is the point
of your writing and why do you persist during a difficult time.
Discussion is always welcome! 

Have a healthy, happy, and creative December!
Take care!



Till next time ~
Fundy Blue

Standing Into Danger https://selkiegrey4.blogspot.com
Copyright ©2025 – All rights reserved.

My next post will be Friday, December 12th πŸ€ž 



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41 comments:

  1. Dear Louise, the framed picture is wonderful. Your photo with your friends us beautiful and everyone looks happy and relaxed.
    Lovely post, dear friend 🧑 Thank you so much for sharing 😊

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    1. Thanks, Linda! You lift my spirits always! ❤️

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  2. Aww, that's such a happy photo <3 And what a lovely gift! That first page makes me want to keep reading the story...

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    1. Thanks, Deniz! You made my day! I hope yours is super!

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  3. Your framed first publication is such a powerful reminder of why you write, and it’s inspiring to see how the love of your family continues to anchor and affirm your creative journey

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    1. I can't imagine what my life would be without my family, Roentare. We have supported each other through so many challenges. I hope you are having a great week. And that you enjoyed your cardiology conference. My conferences were rocks. πŸ˜‚

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  4. That's a great gift. How thoughtful of your parents for arriving at the perfect, most ,meaningful gift, for their daughter, the writer.

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    1. Thanks, Dreaming. My family has always believed in me. Hugs to you! ❤️

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  5. Me too! --on a supportive family. Your gift of the framed short story was so thoughtful.

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    1. I understand how lucky you are, Teresa! Have a fun day visiting around!

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  6. That is a really cool frame. You have an awesome family.

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    1. I know I do, Alex! I wish every family was as close as mine. Wishing you the best!

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  7. What a beautiful gift from your family! And that's a great picture of you and your family.

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  8. ...I'm by no means a writer. But during my nursery career two articles were written about me in trade journals. I have them framed and hanging on my office wall.

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  9. The Antigonish Review! That's impressive, Louise! No wonder you felt validated!

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    1. Thanks, Debra! I smile every time I think of it. have a great day, my friend! ❤️

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  10. What a beautiful gift! I love how they framed the cover and the first page of your story--classy. Family is everything.

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  11. That is so sweet! My husband surprised me by printing and framing the cover art from my first series and hanging them on our bedroom wall.

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    1. Your husband is a prince, Diane! What a wonderful, thoughtful thing to do! Have a great day, my friend!

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  12. Hey Louise!
    That is such a lovely gift! My family tells me my grades are bad because of it:) It is our family whom we expect to support us first and I can imagine how amazing it must have felt.

    Happy xmas December!

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    1. I hope you have a great December too, Rida! I know your parents are pushing you to get good grades, because they want you to be independent and to have a successful future. But writing is in your heart, and you will continue to find a way to honor that.
      Every phase of live has its challenges. My hope for you is that you have a long, happy, and fulfilling journey during your amazing gift of life! ❤️

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  13. What a great present! Wishing you a very Merry Christmas!

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    1. Thanks, Sherry! I hope you have a Merry Christmas too! ❤️

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  14. That is an amazing present! And I love that it's something you can look at to remind yourself you are a real writer. Great seeing the photo of your family. What a gift!

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    1. Thanks, Jenni! I hope you are having lots of fun visiting around today. Have a great holiday Season!

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  15. That one sweet present! Here's to a very Merry Christmas and a successful 2026!

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  16. The frame work is so cool What a great gift.

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  17. That is a great gift indeed. Always have it there to look at when needed.

    Was other Pat going to set the church on fire as a signal the day the picture was taken? Lol

    Saw your other post too. The animals even gave you a shout at our zoo, or maybe a blame haha

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    1. πŸ˜‚ The Pat's in my life certainly liven things up! Hug all the animals for me, please!

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  18. Great framed picture. Always nice to have a validation.
    Do you know that you family photo is dated year 2029?

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  19. Hi,
    I want to get more involved with our Facebook. I love the present that your family gave to you. That is something that you never will forget. It landed straight into your heart.
    Have a very merry Christmas and a safe crossover into 2026.
    Shalom shalom

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  20. That is a beautiful gift! I am so glad you have such an awesomely supportive family. Merry Christmas!

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  21. Love the framed story! What a nice gift. :)

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  22. I had one of the only two poems, I wrote as a teenager framed by my mother. It was published in a Sunday School weekly newsletter for teens. I thought it was not the best of the two. Maybe the one I liked best was too long. Who knows?

    Yes, it was a good gift. Your framed gift was great. Wonderful family.

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  23. Such a lovely post. What a beautiful family you have, and they gave you a beautiful gift.

    Love,
    Janie

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  24. I would have never thought of doing that! You have a great family.

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