Wednesday, November 5, 2025

IWSG: Wednesday, November 5, 2025 ~ Dreams Deferred




It's the first Wednesday of the month,
the day that members of the
Insecure Writer's Support Group
share their writing struggles
and writing successes
and offer their encouragement
and support to fellow writers.






To visit the IWSG website, click here.

To become a member of the IWSG, click here.

Our wonderful co-hosts who are volunteering today,
along with IWSG Founder Alex J. Cavanaugh are 

Stop by their posts and thank them for hosting.
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Every month the IWSG announces a question that members can answer
with advice, insight, a personal experience, or a story in their IWSG posts.

Or, the question can inspire members
if they aren't sure what to write about on IWSG Day.

Remember the question is optional.

This month's optional question is: 
When you began writing, what did you imagine your life as a writer would be like? Were you right, or has this experience presented you with some surprises along the way?
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Happy November, Everyone! 
I hope all is well with each of you.

The first stories I remember writing was when I was eight and nine in third grade.
But as much as I enjoyed writing them, I knew I would not make my living as a writer.

Christmas Eve 1958 ~ The Year I Began Writing
My Brother Roy and I (Holding Gretchen Still)
with My Sisters Barb and Donnie
My youngest Sister Bertie would be born in March 1959.
Margaretsville, Nova Scotia, Canada
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I knew from the time I was three or four that I was expected to go to university,
and not just any university, but Acadia University in Wolfville, Nova Scotia.
It was drilled into me that I would become a strong, independent woman
who could stand on my own two feet and not be dependent on a man to support me.

University Hall, Acadia University
Wolfville, Nova Scotia, Canada
2000s ~ Date Uncertain
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Seventy years ago this was a radical idea in Atlantic Canada, 
but it came from the struggles of women on both sides of my family,
women who were widowed and left to support themselves and sometimes their children.
My father was as determined as my mother that their four daughters
would graduate from university as well as their only son.
And we all did graduate from Acadia.

My Great Grandmother Sara Cossaboom ~ One Very Strong Woman
Widowed at a Young Age with Four Girls to Raise
Smith's Cove, Nova Scotia, Canada ~ Date Unknown
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I wrote a lot during my careers as a geologist and a teacher,
but my creative writing dreams were deferred.
I did manage to publish a few creative things ~
but I wasn't able to focus on my nonprofessional writing until I retired.

And that's perfectly okay!
I'm proud of myself for becoming a strong, independent woman
able to stand on my own two feet.
I have experienced great joy in my retirement years as a blogger, a writer of short stories,
a diarist/journalist, and a memoirist.
I have big writing dreams that I continue to pursue. 

Finally a Real Writer!
Copies of Voyager:  The Third Ghost Arrive
Photo by Terry Barbour, May 2020
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My Writing Space in Our Newly Renovated Kitchen
Aurora, Colorado, USA
October 22, 2025
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It's going to be fun to see how others have answered this month's question.

Have a healthy, happy, and creative November!
Take care!



Till next time ~
Fundy Blue

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Friday, October 24, 2025

Open Your Eyes ...

"Open your eyes, and see what you can with them before they close forever.”

This quote from the wonderful novel All the Light We Cannot See
by Anthony Doerr is one of my favorites.
I remind myself all the time to open my eyes and see.

During the past few days we have had beautiful fall weather,
and I have been walking along Piney Creek taking in all the sights.
I'm delighted to be home and to have the time to wander,
to say "Hi!" to my favorite trees and to search for animals.

Juvenile Cottonwoods Surround Their Likely Father
(the big dark trunk in the background)
Along Piney Creek,  Aurora, Colorado, USA
October 21, 2025
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Here are some things I've opened my eyes to see:

Alert Mule Deer ~ Don't you love those ears?
(near the entrance to the park)
Aurora, Colorado, USA
October 21, 2025
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Cottonwood Tree
(near the entrance to the park)
October 21, 2025
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Milkweed Seeds
I've been watching the milkweed slowly spread along Piney Creek for years. 
Along Piney Creek,  Aurora, Colorado, USA
October 21, 2025
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My "Upper" Pond
There are many, many ponds along the length of Piney Creek,
but there are three along the east side of Heritage Eagle Bend where I live.
Along Piney Creek,  Aurora, Colorado, USA
October 21, 2025
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Common Mullein Stalks Are Everywhere This Fall
October 21, 2025
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Old Man Cottonwood
October 21, 2025
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Old Man Cottonwood is my favorite tree in "my" section of the park.
I've been photographing him for many years.
I like to visit him to see what's new, touch his branches, and talk to him.
I feel vindicated in my actions after just finishing an amazing book,
The Light Eaters by Zoë Schlanger, last week.

Some of the Lovely and Rooty Textures at the Base of Old Man Cottonwood
October 21, 2025
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Leaves Caught in a Crotch in Old Man Cottonwood
October 21, 2025
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Old Man Cottonwood
Here you can see how he's toppled over exposing his base in the left background.
This is why I call him old ~ He's fallen and he can't get up.
October 21, 2025
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I remember asking one of my high school science teachers, Jerry MacLean,
if he thought that trees could communicate.
He told me I'd be better served, if I stopped looking out the windows
and paid attention in class.
I hope Mr. MacLean has lived long enough to read The Light Eaters!
If you read it, you will never look at plants the same way again!

Till Next Time, Old Buddy!
October 21, 2025
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I encounter lots of people along the trail following Piney Creek.
This guy blew by me peddling his recumbent bike
with Van Morrison blasting "Moondance" in all directions.
Simpatico!!! 




I like to roam off the path searching for less obvious life

The Last Dandelions of the Year
October 21, 2025
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A Damselfly
What bright blue eyes and a long body you have!
October 22, 2025
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Prickly Pear Cactus Hides in Dry Areas
October 21, 2025
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Asters Still Bloom in Scattered Spots
October 21, 2025
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A Ruddy Darter Dragonfly
October 21, 2025
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The park is very quiet, its life preparing for the coming winter.
I never tire of seeing bullrushes, leaves against the sky, duckweed blanketing a pond
or a path with with leaves to shuffle through.

Fluffy Bullrushes aka Cattails
October 22, 2025
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Almost Gone
October 22, 2025
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Leaves Resting on a Duckweed Blanket
October 22, 2025
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It's Impossible to Resist Shuffling Through Leaves 
October 23, 2025
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And if you're lucky like I was today (Thursday), 
you might chance upon some wildlife you've been searching for. 
I was pulling a U-e on the way home, and there were the deer beside a house:
Mama, her two almost grown fawns and a fourth unfamiliar deer.
The moment I hit my brakes and rolled down my window, 
Mama and her offspring were moving away while the fourth deer looked on.

Serendipity!
October 23, 2025
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Mama and Her Fawns
October 23, 2025
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Mama and Her Fawns by Our Driveway
July 21, 2025
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May you see wonderful things in your corner of the world!
Have a great weekend!



 Till next time ~
 Fundy Blue
 
Standing Into Danger                                    https://selkiegrey4.blogspot.com
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My next post will be 
Friday, October 31, 2025 🤞 






On a completely different topic ~ The world recently lost a member of the Moody Blues.
John Lodge, the legendary bassist, singer, and songwriter for The Moody Blues died on October 10th.
I've loved the Moody Blues and their music since I was a young teenager,
and I was fortunate to see them perform at Fiddler's Green in Greenwood Village in the late 1980s.
Sadly only Justin Hayward remains.
Here is one of my favorite song of theirs "Isn't Life Strange" written by John Lodge.

The Moody Blues ~ "Isn't Life Strange"
Filmed at Red Rocks, Colorado in 1992

Isn't life strange?
A turn of the page
Can read like before
Can we ask for more?

Each day passes by
How hard man will try?
The sea will not wait
You know it makes me want to cry, cry, cry

Wished I could be in your heart
To be one with your love
Wished I could be in your eyes
Looking back, there you were and here we are

Isn't love strange?
A word we arrange
With no thought or care
Maker of despair

Each breath that we breathe
With love we must weave
To make us as one
You know it makes me want to cry, cry, cry

Wished I could be in your heart
To be one with your love
Wished I could be in your eyes
Looking back, there you were and here we are

Isn't life strange?
A turn of the page
A book without light
Unless with love we write

To throw it away
To lose just a day
The quicksand of time
You know it makes me want to cry, cry, cry

Wished I could be in your heart
To be one with your love
Wished I could be in your eyes
Looking back, there you were

Wished I could be in your heart
To be one with your love
Wished I could be in your eyes
Looking back, there you were

Wished I could be in your heart
To be one with your love
Wished I could be in your eyes
Looking back, there you were

Wished I could be in your heart
To be one with your love
Wished I could be in your eyes
Looking back, there you were

Source: Musixmatch
Songwriters: John Charles Lodge
Isn't Life Strange lyrics © Johnsongs, Halesouth Ltd., Sparta Florida Music Group Ltd




Friday, October 17, 2025

On the Move

I'm back after traveling to Las Vegas twice in two weeks, once without a computer.
We were meeting up with different friends, Jon and the East Coasters from the US
and then Janeth from Ottawa, Canada.  Hectic, but fun!

An Artsy View of Vegas ~ The Arte Museum
Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
October 8, 2025
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Best of Friends ~ Jon and Terry
Benny's Smokin' BBQ & Brews at Binion's
Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
October 2, 2025
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*Note the roll of paper towels.  They're needed for scrumptious ribs!


Terry and I Split a Rack of Benny's Ribs ~ So Yummy! 
Fremont Street, Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
October 2, 2025
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We crammed everything we could into our visits,
and my special thing was listening to my favorite band Alter Ego at the 1st Street Stage.
They had transformed into Alter Igor for Halloween.

Kevin Vecchione, Rich Embry, and Dancer ~ Alter Igor
Fremont Street, Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
October 7, 2025
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Base Guitarist Kevin Vecchione and Dancers ~ Alter Igor
Fremont Street, Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
October 7, 2025
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Terry, Jon, local Jim, and the East Coasters (Harv, Scott, and Catherine)
enjoyed their Mattress Poker Game at the Palazzo.
They had a tournament pot of $150.
Terry placed 2nd winning $60 and Jim 1st winning $90.

Jim, Terry, and Harv ~ 
As Harv's Sidekick, Monkey Jacques, Oversees the Exciting End of the Game
Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
October 2, 2025
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Harv, Terry, Me, Scott, and Catherine ~ 
Enjoying a Meal at Andiamo Steakhouse in the D
Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
October 1, 2025
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Janeth and I took in an immersive exhibit at the Arte Museum on the Strip.
It was fabulous!  Mind-Bending!

 A Mind-Bending Experience at the Arte Museum
Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
October 1, 2025
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 Pungsokhwa (genre painting) of the Joseon Dynasty in Korea ~ 
Showcasing the Energetic Dance Moves of Samulnori
Arte Museum, Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
October 1, 2025
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During our two trips we saw lots of sports events
(football, baseball, hockey) in different venues.
A definite fun time was Wednesday Night Hockey in Bar Canada at the D!
I was definitely thinking of my blogging buddy Debra who is a big Oilers fan!
Unfortunately the Edmonton Oilers lost to the Calgary Fames 4-3 in a Shootout. 😱

 Cheering for the Edmonton Oilers!
Arte Museum, Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
October 1, 2025
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We ate so much great food, which is why I don't want to step on my scale! 😂 

 At the Chart House in the Golden Nugget
Downtown, Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
October 1, 2025
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Janeth and I at the Chart House
I will not show the food or us gorging! 😱
Downtown, Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
October 8,, 2025
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I do love Las Vegas!
It takes me away from everything!
I did gamble a little, and I had a win of $288.00 when I won a progressive Straight Flush.
I am not a whale.  I am a low roller.

My Big Win!
The D, Downtown, Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
October 8,, 2025
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So now I'm home for a good stretch!  Yay!🤞
Vegas and Alter Ego will just have to manage without me!
Happy weekend!

Drummer Daniel Conway ~ Singing His signature Hotel California
I think it's better than the Eagles original.
Fremont Street, Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
October 8, 2025
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Now that I'm home, maybe for two months, I'm determined to get on top of my blogging.
We shall see, because life is full of surprises.
Wishing you happiness, fulfillment, and energy!



 Till next time ~
 Fundy Blue
 
Standing Into Danger                                    https://selkiegrey4.blogspot.com
 Copyright ©2025 – All rights reserved.

My next post will be 
Wednesday, October 1, 2025 🤞