Tuesday, September 5, 2023

IWSG: Wednesday, September 6, 2023 ~ And So It Begins!






It's the first Wednesday of the month,
the day that members of the
Insecure Writer's Support Group
share their writing struggles
and writing successes
and offer their encouragement
and support to fellow writers.






To visit the IWSG website, click here.

To become a member of the IWSG, click here.

Our wonderful co-hosts who are volunteering today,
along with IWSG Founder Alex J. Cavanaugh are Sonja DograJ Lenni DornerPat Garcia,  Sarah - The Faux Fountain Pen, and Meka James!
 
I hope you have a chance to visit today's hosts and thank them for co-hosting.
I'm sure they would appreciate a visit and an encouraging comment.

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Every month the IWSG announces a question that members can answer
with advice, insight, a personal experience, or a story in their IWSG posts.

Or, the question can inspire members
if they aren't sure what to write about on IWSG Day.

Remember the question is optional.

This month's featured question is: 
The IWSG celebrates 12 years today!  When did you discover the IWSG, how do you connect, and how has it helped you?
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Happy September, Everyone!  
Can it be September already?
I'm not ready for fall, let alone winter that follows fall.
And then there are those lucky people in the southern hemisphere 
who are heading into spring followed by summer.  Enjoy!
Wherever you are, whatever the season, I hope you are happy, safe, and well!

A Beautiful and Fleeting Summer Evening
Smith's Cove, Nova Scotia, Canada
July 31, 2023
© M. Louise (MacBeath) Barbour/Fundy Blue
All Rights Reserved


I thought this month's question would be quick and easy to answer,
but I fell down a rabbit hole and it took much longer than I thought.
I entered the rabbit hole when I became curious about how the IWSG started.
I ended up scrolling through a lot of Alex's posts as I searched for the IWSG's origin.

Yes, The Insecure Writer's Support Group began on September 6, 2011,
but Alex published the first post on Tuesday, September 5th:

"This is my first Insecure Writer’s Support Group post:

My biggest fear is friends - losing them. I worry I might say or do something dumb. I worry my snark might be taken the wrong way or my inexperience will cause hard feelings. After losing a friend earlier this year (even though it was over something of which I had no control) I don’t want to see any other friendships dissolve. You all matter to me and I don’t want to offend anyone.

Fortunately, friends are my greatest supporters. If you’re a writer looking for friends and encouragement, you’ve come to the right place. On days you’re feeling down, someone will say a word that renews your energy. My blogger buddies have kept me going long after I wanted to quit. They mean the world to me. And if you’re connecting with other bloggers, you’ll discover they are an awesome bunch of people!

And this is a little surprise, because I didn’t tell these guys. But my publisher is currently preparing review copies of CassaFire, and this will be the dedication:

For my three awesome friends
who guided me on this journey -
Rusty Webb
Jeffrey Beesler
Anne Gallagher
I couldn’t have done it without you!

Now, what’s your word of encouragement or writer insecurity today?"



One thing that struck me was that the first blog hop list
for the IWSG already had 118 members!
Another was that it included the names of many who are members today!
Obviously, something had been going on before the first official post,
and the IWSG has continued to be important to the "charter" members.

And, as I saw on Alex's followup September 9, 2011 post, 
he was already making a point of visiting everyone's site:

"Thanks to everyone who participated in the first post of the Insecure Writer’s Support Group! I hope I visited everyone’s site. So many poured out their heart, and the encouraging comments were awesome. Really, it was beyond what I imagined. I may have started something here! But it’s you guys who made it special. One post that caught my attention was from Youngblood, and I hope you have a chance to drop by and offer a word of encouragement. Next post date – October 5!" 

Remember This Badge!


Another followup on September 12, 2011:

"Big thanks again to those who left such awesome comments for those participating in the Insecure Writer’s Support Group. I appreciate everyone’s efforts. You guys rock!"




And on September 23, 2011 a big question about Alex was answered!
What he looks like!



Seriously, if I did know what Alex looked like, I would never reveal it,
because I know he promised his wife to keep his writing life and private life separate.

Alex's friend Rusty no longer blogs, 
but I hope Alex and others get a kick out of his drawing.
This drawing was too fun not to share.


During the month of August 2011, people were tossing around
ideas for a possible writers group.
Alex wrote in an August 17th post:

"Now, about that Insecure Writers Support Group…

I’ve noticed a lot of posts lately about doubts, concerns, and a lack of confidence. Insecure is a term most writers use to describe themselves. (Some would even say neurotic.) 

The cool thing about this community is the amount of support available. Everyone is such an encourager. I thought it would be cool if one day a month, everyone involved in the Insecure Writers Support group posted either:
A situation where they need some encouragement
Words of encouragement for others about to face a situation
What do you think? Good idea or really stupid? Would the possibility of a large group of writers posting their doubts all on the same day send the blogging world into a neurotic tailspin? Or would this be better than expensive therapy sessions? (Better than coming to me for therapy, because I might just mess you up even worse!)"


From my reading of Alex's earlier posts I discovered 
that an earlier supportive group, Fantastic Friday Writers, existed,
and I'm deducing that the IWSG grew out of FFW.

Down the Rabbit Hole
Wikimedia Commons ~ Valerie Hinojosa ~ License


I was going to write about the second part of the rabbit hole I fell into,
but what I've shared so far is more than long enough for one post.
I'll include how I ended up with the IWSG,
and why I think it's such a wonderful group on Friday, September 9th. 

I  hope you enjoyed this delve into how the IWSG started.
I love the enthusiasm of Alex when he was establishing the IWSG
and figuring out what to do with it with his many blog friends back then.

He said on September 9, 2011, "I may have started something here!"
Well, cheers to you, Alex, for starting a wonderful group,
and for shepherding it throughout the last twelve years.
And thanks to all those early blogging friends of his who helped to make it happen! 

Enjoy IWSG Day.  Stay happy, healthy, and safe.
🤞~ I hope to see you back on Friday!

Just Because ~ Nothing Says Summer and Nova Scotia to Me
Like a Patch of Queen Anne's Lace!
Smith's Cove, Nova Scotia, Canada
July 30, 2023
© M. Louise (MacBeath) Barbour/Fundy Blue
All Rights Reserved




Till next time ~
Fundy Blue

https://selkiegrey4.blogspot.com





46 comments:

  1. The ISWG is packed to the rafters with talent. And support. It epitomises Alex that he started it, and the wonderful members that it still continues...

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    1. Yes the IWSG is, Sue! It remains a wonderful and supportive group. Hugs to you!

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  2. Hi! I love your post. I am sure Alex will enjoy it too. Kudos to you for going down that rabbit hole!

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    1. Thanks Sonja! I hope that Alex and others enjoy it too. I had a lot of fun digging into the past of our organization. Thanks for co-hosting today! Enjoy!

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  3. Thanks for sharing some of Alex's first posts about the IWSG, I wasn't here back then and enjoyed reading them. And I really don't know what he looks like. Thanks for sharing what you know about that, though I understand why he wants to keep it private given his promise to his wife. I'm so glad that I'm part of this supportive group.

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    1. I'm glad that you are part of the group, Natalie! And I'm grateful to be in it too. I thought members who were not "charter" members of the IWSG would enjoy learning how it came about. Have a lovely weekend, my friend! xoxox

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  4. Oh wow, I wrote that? So awesome you went searching for it. I'm really flattered.
    Rusty is still out there! Lives in Bermuda now. Just doesn't blog anymore.
    Thanks for being such an awesome member of the IWSG team.

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    1. Whew! I woke up in the middle of the night thinking, "OMG, I used all this information from Alex's blog and never asked his permission!" It took me a while to get back to sleep. I'm relieved that you enjoyed the post, Alex! Normally, I'm pretty careful about using material that isn't mine, but it didn't cross my mind. I was so caught up in the idea, and I wanted it to be a surprise for everyone. Thanks for letting me know Rusty is still among us. I went back and fixed that part of my post, because it's important to me to be accurate. Enjoy your day, my friend!

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  5. thank you for sharing about insecure writer support group dear Louise .i can only imagine the bond between all of you incredibly talented people who share this common platform to display their skills of writing and imagination.
    i am really happy you found the place that helped to write more my friend because i know how determined and amazing you are when it comes to your passion and deadlines . i remember quite long ago when you advised me too to join this group and i got tears in my eyes tears of gratitude instantly because you were first person of my life who encouraged me for my simple words . this was big dear and golden opportunity for a simple writer as me so i thanked you from bottom of my heart but i knew with life style i have this would be not possible to meet dead lines specially when kids were younger and i was their home tutor as well along with other so many responsibilities so i apologized with a wish hidden in my heart may i will try in future when i am sure about i can do it on regular bases .
    thanks again for being such open and honest support all the way dear friend . the beauty of your soul is beyond my words ,you are one of the finest human being i ever met .My heart keps you in thoughts and prays always ! hugs

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    1. Dear, Baili, you always melt my heart with your kind and wonderful words! You are an amazing friend, now and all the time I've known you! I completely understand why you didn't join the group. I know that your family is the highest priority for you. I've watched you as a mother and seen how much support and love you put into your three sons. Each of them is a wonderful human being. And I know how you waited for the right life partner to come along, and you found him in Ali! It's heartbreaking to think that I was the first person to encourage you in your writing. You're so good!!! I will always encourage you in fulfilling your interests and passions. You give so much to others, and I'm hoping the time will come when you have more time for you! I haven't finished the video yet, but I will. Take care my darling friend! xoxox

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  6. Bravo and kudos to Alex J. Cavanaugh and everyone in the IWSG!

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    1. Thanks, Debra! I think Alex is an awesome human being, and he has inspired and supported many people over the years. Hugs to you, my special friend!

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  7. Anonymous Esther O'Neill, East of the Sun, because I live in a dead zone, just below Scotland, not just no signal, but 1.9 mbps. Google, understandably, can't believe this. Helps incredibly to read about other people's insecurities, thanks for sharing yours.

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    1. Thanks for visiting, Esther! That's one of the things about the IWSG that I love. It does help to read about other people's insecurities. Writing is not easy, and we all want to feel that our writing is important and worth pursuing. Sorry about that weak signal, and kudos to you for participating amidst challenges. Have a happy IWSG Day!

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  8. What's neat is the spirit of this group hasn't changed at all.

    LOL - love the image of Alex.

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    1. Yes, the spirit of the group is alive and well! And I love the image of Alex too! Enjoy the day, Diane!

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  9. I loved your deep dive through Alex's blog! I joined about two years after the IWSG started, so it's interesting to read those first posts.

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    1. Thanks, Sarah! You and I must have joined at about the same time. I hope you are enjoying "our" day.

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  10. That was the year I started blogging too. I think I joined IWSG a few years after that. I remember seeing it start and that pic of Alex though lmao

    Rabbit holes are fun to go down many a time indeed.

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    1. Hi, Pat! You were the one that led me to the IWSG. I love rabbit holes ~ lol! Have a good day, my friend!

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  11. I'm impressed that you found your first IWSG post! I'm afraid mine disappeared when I moved from Blogger to this dratted WordPress. Loved the images you posted about Alex. It's amazing, isn't it? Twelve years and still going strong.

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    1. That's too bad that you lost your posts when you switched to WordPress, Lee. I'm sticking with Blogger: Better the devil you know than the one you don't ~ lol! 12 years is amazing! Here's to the next 12! 🥂

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  12. My first comment vanished and it was much more interesting than this one. Oh well, Loved your first post and the reminiscences about IWSG.

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    1. You get an A+ for persistence, Lee! You're a sweetheart, and I appreciate all the encouragement you've give me over the years! Take care, my friend!

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  13. Your rabbit hole held a great deal of wonderful information. Thank you for sharing all of this and your wonderful post! :)

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    1. Thanks, Tyrean! I find rabbit holes too attractive ~ lol! Enjoy your September!

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  14. Hi, Jen! I like our new lego more, but I have a fondness for the old one. I finally joined the group in April 2014, but only after months of reading and responding to people's posts. I was too insecure to join an insecure group ~ lol! But I'm glad I did! Take care!

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  15. That's wonderful that you've gotten so much out of the group! GO you.

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    1. Thanks, Ivy! I've always enjoyed your enthusiasm! Happy September, looking for those Halloween baking and decorating supplies!

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  16. What a clever approach to this one, Louise, a look back. I too noticed lots of people have been in this group for years. I like how Alex keeps people on the list based on longevity.

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    1. Thanks, Jacqui! I tell you what, the way Alex keeps that list keeps me not missing to post ~ lol. I don't want to go to the end of the line. Happy September to you!

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  17. I am so glad you fell down the rabbit hole! I didn't realize I was in it pretty early. I think around 2012? I'll have to check out some of my old IWSG posts next time and see how much (or little) things have changed!

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    1. Thanks, Elizabeth! Looking at my earliest posts is humbling. I've learned a lot about blogging with the IWSG on top of everything else! Take care!

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  18. My life these past few years have seemed a not so fun trip down the rabbit hole, for sure! Your post brought back a lot of wonderful memories. May this upcoming year generate only happy memories for you!

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    1. Thanks, Roland! I'm glad that my post Brough back a lot of wonderful memories for you! Take care!

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  19. What good intel about the IWSG origin story, Louise! I enjoyed learning more. Hope you have a great autumn.

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  20. Really amazing research here! 👏🏽
    You should be proud of this post.
    Imagine if Alex went with "Encouraging Writers Support Group" instead of insecure?
    Never thought about that.

    The IWSG is celebrating 12 years today, which is so amazing for a blogging community of writers. A dozen years of support! 🎉
    "The only thing you absolutely have to know is the location of the library." – Albert Einstein quote
    September is library card sign-up month! Get one, use one, and be grateful such places exist.

    J Lenni Dorner (he/him 👨🏽 or 🧑🏽 they/them) ~ Speculative Fiction &Reference Author, OperationAwesome6 Debut Author Interviewer, and Co-host of the #AtoZchallenge

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  21. Alex sure did start something! I don't know the background of what led to it. I was one of Alex's blog followers and when he announced the first post, being insecure and all, I leaped. Amazing that is it now twelve years later!

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  22. Hi Louise!
    Twelve years ago, blogging was really in full swing and I was fortunate enough to stumble on the blogging community as well as the annual A to Z Challenge.
    I think many bloggers and people doing the A to Z Challenge migrated to the IWSG.
    The group has such a wonderful sense of community, which is hard to find in online groups. I'm so glad we connected, Louise!

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    1. Thanks, Michelle! I'm glad too. And you're right, many people who participated in Arlene's A to Z Challenge migrated to the IWSG. Thanks for making that point. Take care!

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  23. Thanks for the IWSG history lesson. It is fascinating to learn how something this important to so many people started.

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  24. What a wonderful post. I'm so glad we've had an opportunity to get to know each other.
    Write on.
    Sandra sandracox.blogspot.com

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  25. That sounds like a fun and uplifting rabbit hole, at least! @samanthabwriter from
    Balancing Act

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  26. Love the history of IWSG. What a lovely tribute you gave. And re the Queen Anne's lace. In Ohio it's considered a weed, but I always love the tenacity of these wild flowers that no matter what their circumstances - no rain, too much rain - they survive.

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  27. I like your rabbit hole. It's always cool to look back at what's taken place, and recollect the fond memories and the connections we built. I've met so many amazing people through this group. It's been wonderful.

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  28. When I saw this month's blog hop question, I did a rabbit hole myself into my old posts too. I'd switch from Weebly to Wordpress in 2015. When I moved, I had to manually copy and paste my old posts to the new WIP site as there was no export function. So my comments weren't transferred over. So had to go back to my old Weebly blog to find out when I met author Quanie Miller who led me to finding the IWSG.

    If it wasn't for Alex creating this group, chances are I wouldn't still be blogging to this day. Thanks for creating the IWSG!

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